Friday, April 12, 2024

Answered prayer & Totality

Recently, there has been some friction between my sister and I, which was a partial misconception after I spoke with her. It has been on-going a couple of weeks but I did not understand the severity of it on her part.  I felt as if she was not supporting Jake and she felt that I was purposely trying to make her uncomfortable as I sat on the front row.  Without going into the petty details, the night after I spoke with her I had expressed it all to Jake. He thinks some of it could have been avoided if he was fully informed of some things by a leader in the ward, who withheld her name (although I think he knew it was her because of me) and if another leader would not have made a decision without consulting the ward counsel or him. He was frustrated and had meetings already set up with one the next evening and scheduled to meet with the other.  

I knew he was off, so I prayed fervently to Heavenly Father to please allow his meetings to go well and that he follow the Spirit.  You see, I am certain because he loves me so much and it effected my feelings, added to it the most.  Anyways, he came home late that evening after his meetings and when I asked how they went, he said "the Spirit constrained me from saying what I had wanted to say" and they were good.  He said he had just wanted to be upset and express his frustration but instead both were very pleasant meetings.  I knew right then the Lord heard and answered my prayers...that measly old me was seen and heard.  Prayer is real and the Lord is there.


General Conference weekend was well too.  I very much enjoyed Elder Holland's talk on prayer and he sharing the struggles he has had.  It re-affirmed that God hears and answers my prayers. Aubree was able to attend the Sunday morning session in person with her Uncle Tommie and cousin Nathan.


Monday, April 8, 2024 was another day I knew that God lived.  Jake and I took off work to take the boys to the solar eclipse full totality in Arkansas. The entire day, I felt God's love through Jake and the beauty of the Earth as we drove.  Watching complete totality is amazing, it is something hard to describe and is vastly different than even 99%.  I was reminded just how much 1% difference can make in all that we do and how small things can be powerful big things.  We let the boys each invite a friend and I enjoyed seeing all of them happy and talk about it after.  





On a different note, I arranged a date night (4/11) for Jake and I to see Wicked with dinner before.  It is always important to make time together. 



Monday, April 1, 2024

Easter Sunday & Jake's 1st wedding

 Jake officiated his first wedding March 29, 2024.  He was a tad nervous but did a great job.  Love is his specialty as he loves wonderfully and big. It was a nice evening.  I was reminded of the love that I have for him and how love changes people for the better. It is a Christ-like characteristic that I want to more fully develop so that my heart will change for the best and I will think of others more often. 


Church on Easter Sunday was beautiful. Jake wrote the program and the spoken words were magnificent.  The spirit was especially strong during the musical numbers.  During several of the songs, I felt my Savior's love and the Spirit testifying to me that He lives. 

Sacrament Program (3/31/2024)

Welcome- Bishop Farrell

Opening Song – Easter Hosanna – primary

Opening Prayer – Ginny Jones

Sacrament Song – 172: In Humility Our Savior (congregation)

Sacrament Administered

Narration – Jesus’ Ministry

Born of humble birth, the Son of God came to earth.  A babe wrapped in swaddling clothes and laid in a manger was the hope of the world.  “And His name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6).”

From a young age he went about the work of His Father.  He healed the sick, gave sight to the blind, cleansed the leper, and raised the dead, all to glorify His Father in Heaven.  People sought Jesus from near and far for His healing.  He also found those that could not come to him.  One man had waited at the waters of Bethesda for 38 years to be healed.  Due to his infirmity he could never reach the waters in time to claim its healing power. 

John 5:6-8

“When Jesus saw him lie, and knew that he had been now a long time in that case, he saith unto him, Wilt thou be made whole?

The impotent man answered him, Sir, I have no man, when the water is troubled, to put me into the pool: but while I am coming, another steppeth down before me.

Jesus saith unto him, Rise, take up thy bed, and walk.”

Yet His ministry was more than healing our physical infirmities.  He fed both physically and spiritually as testament that He was “the bread of life” and the living water. 

His message was one of hope, forgiveness, redemption, and love.  When a woman was caught in adultery and brought before him, His message was clear.  “Let he who is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her (John 8:7).”  He wanted everyone to show kindness and mercy just as He had shown.  He sat with publicans and sinners for He knew that “They that are whole need not a physician, but they that are sick (Luke 5:31).” 

Of all his teachings, his greatest was to love.  When asked which is the greatest command he answered Matthew 22:37-39:

“Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt alove the Lord thy God with all thy bheart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy cmind.

This is the first and great acommandment.

And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt alove thy neighbour as thyself.”

Song – 308: Love One Another (congregation)

Narration – Gethsemane and cross

He entered Jerusalem as a triumphant Savior.  Matthew 21:9 “And the multitudes went before, and that followed, cried, saying, Hosana to the Son of David: Blessed is he who cometh in the name of the Lord: Hosana in the highest.”

Hosanna being interpreted is “Pray, save us.”  So the Savior continued His ministry of love and healing.  However, the salvation Jesus offered was not the saving the people were seeking.  They misunderstood the greater salvation from death and sin that He offered and sought instead deliverance from the Romans.  Many of the people would turn away from the Savior.  He would soon be betrayed by one of His friends and disciples, Judas.

Before this great betrayal, Jesus went to pray in Gethsemane asking His disciples to keep watch.  Luke 22: 41-42, 44:

“And he was withdrawn from them about a stone’s cast, and kneeled down, and prayed,

Saying, Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done.

And being in agony he prayed more earnestly: and his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground.”

The Son of God offered himself as the great intercession for all.

Shortly after, he would willing surrender himself to Pilate.  Pilate offered to free Jesus the Christ or Barabbas to a gathered crowd.  They replied, Barabbas.  Asking again what he should do with Jesus, the crowd shouted, “Let him be crucified (Matthew 27:22).”

Before bearing His cross to Golgotha, he was crowned with plaited thorns, mocked, spit upon, and whipped until bleeding and weak.  Through it all, He still had love and forgiveness for all declaring, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do (Luke 23:34).”  After hours upon the cross, He commended His spirit to the Father.

Song – Gethsemane – Emmeline and Samuel Young

Narration – resurrection

The whole Earth mourned the crucifixion of the Savior.  The sky darkened and the earth shook as He suffered on the cross.  The Book of Mormon, a record of another tribe of Israel on the American continent, recorded great destruction at the death of the Savior including earthquakes, tempest, and fires.  The continent was shrouded in darkness so thick that no light could be seen or created. 

As dark as that day was, Easter morning would soon arrive.

Sunday morning, Mary Magdalene, and Mary, the mother of James and Salome, and other women went to the tomb to anoint the body of Jesus with spices they had purchased the night before.  Their account as recorded in Luke states:

Now upon the first day of the week, very early in the morning, they came unto the sepulchre, bringing spices which they prepared, and certain others with them.

And they found the stone rolled away from the sepulchre.

And they entered in, and found not the body of Jesus.

And it came to pass, as they were much perplexed thereabout, behold, two men stood by them in shining garments:

And as they were afraid, and bowed their faces to the earth, they said unto them, Why seek ye the living among the dead?

He is not here, but is risen.

No greater words of hope exist than “He is not here, but is risen.”  The suffering of the day of crucifixion became known as Good Friday because Easter Sunday had arrived.  All was not lost, for in His resurrection all people would be resurrected.  In His suffering, the price of sin had been paid and we could all be forgiven and return to our Father in Heaven. 

There are at least two other accounts of the resurrected Savior visiting people.  As recorded in John 10 verse 16 Jesus said, “And other sheep I have, which are not of this fold: them also I must bring, and they shall hear my voice; and there shall be one fold, and one shepherd.”  Jesus visited His other sheep on the American continent shortly after His resurrection.

The people who survived the great destruction gathered around a temple in a land called Bountiful and marveled one to another about the change that had taken place to the land.  They talked about Jesus Christ and the sign they had witnessed of His death.  As they were conversing, they heard a voice, but did not understand it.  This is their account (3 Nephi 11: 6-11, 14)

And behold, the third time they did understand the voice which they heard; and it said unto them:

Behold my Beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased, in whom I have glorified my name – hear ye him.

And it came to pass, as they understood they cast their eyes up again towards heaven; and behold, they saw a Man descending out of heaven; and he was dressed in a white robe; and he came down and stood in the midst of them; and the eyes of the whole multitude were turned upon him, and they durst not open their mouths, even one to another, and wist not what it meant, for they thought it was an angel that had appeared unto them.

And it came to pass that he stretched forth his hand and spake unto the people, saying:

Behold, I am Jesus Christ, whom the prophets testified should come unto the world.

And behold, I am the light and the life of the world; and I have drunk out of that bitter cup which the Father hath given me, and have glorified the Father in taking upon me the sins of the world, in the which I have suffered the will of the Father in all things from the beginning.

Arise and come forth unto me, that ye may thrust your hands into my side, and also that ye may feel the prints of the nails in my hands and in my feet, that ye may know that I am the God of Israel, and the God of the whole earth, and have been slain for the sins of the world.

The gathered multitude would be ministered by the Savior over the next few days and be taught beautiful truths of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

The resurrected Savior also appeared in modern times to the prophet Joseph Smith and Sidney Rigdon.  Their testimony is recorded in the Doctrine and Covenants section 76 verses 22-24.

And now after the many testimonies which have been given of him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him, That he Lives!

For we saw him, even on the right hand of God; and we heard the voice bearing record that he is the Only Begotten of the Father –

That by him, and through him, and of him, the worlds are and were created, and the inhabitants thereof are begotten sons and daughters unto God.

Song – Risen – Chloe Boston and Courtney Sandridge

Narration – Come unto Christ

Having fulfilled His earthly ministry, and doing all that the Father had asked, Christ extends a simple invitation to each of us.  Come unto Him.  This refrain is repeated throughout the scriptures.  Matthew 11:28, “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”  2 Nephi 26:33 “and he inviteth all to come unto him and partake of his goodness.”

Christ’s story is more than just a story in the bible.  It is real.  His atonement is real.  His love is real.  Do not let the bible story remain a record on pages of a sacred script.  Let His love touch your heart and change your life.

The babe of Bethlehem still lives.  He calls to you and to me.  “And His name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6).”

Song – Come as You Are – Kirie Walz

Closing – Bishop Farrell

Closing Song – 199: He is Risen!

Closing Prayer – Charlotte Riding









Sunday, March 24, 2024

Happy Birthday Bug

 Happy 22nd birthday to our Ginny. She scatters sunshine wherever she goes, even if she’s being a tad dramatic at times. She patiently helps us navigate parenting and is a great oldest sister. We’re lucky she’s ours! Happy birthday, Bug, or as her dad calls her, Sunshine Princess. 








Saturday, March 23, 2024

Happy 45th to our Jake

 

Jake = a builder of people; one who loves deeply; one who is valiant; a protector. 
 
Happy Birthday to the man who make the lives of others better. He is the rock of our family and sets the bar high. Over a decade one of the kids said, “Dad’s the cool one and mom’s the responsible one”, and it still rings true today; he is a wonderful dagger and even a better husband. We love you Jake. Happy Birthday!
 
He ended up working a craft fair some this morning until I got there from a shorter one but we enjoyed lunch together and an evening in. Will did have a slight fender bender this evening backing up.  He hit the trailer hitch of our friends but pulled to the stop sign and called to say he hit the curb and the bumper fell off.  He finally told the truth.  I was not upset that he had an accident but was disappointed he was dishonest about it.  

Monday, March 11, 2024

Spring Break


Christopher ran a fever and was sick for 7 days a week before Spring Break. I ended up taking him twice to the doctor and they could not determine the cause.  It is no fun to see your babies sick. 

 This past week, I attended my first ACGME conference with my job (made the welcome page for the website too).  Initially I was a little sad that Jake was unable to attend with me because it was the week before Spring Break and teachers are discouraged from taking time off then.  I do feel like I made some friends at work though.  I was anxious to get home Sunday because Ginny had gotten home.  The nice thing is that I got home sooner than expected due to my initial flight getting cancelled the afternoon before it was suppose to depart the next morning.  I was able to secure a flight Saturday evening out and left the conference a little early. There were long delays but I was able to wake my boys up for church Sunday and attend.  Although I had to work during the day, we crammed as much as we could in the evening from eating out to the zoo to going to the Orpheum to see Ms. Doubtfire.  It would have been more enjoyable for me if Aubree was home but she went to California with some friends from school.





 



Thursday, February 15, 2024

Christopher's 1st Dance

 One of the perks of Jake being bishop is we can attend various youth activities we choose, although we go to most all of them.  Christopher had his first dance this past Saturday evening.  It was so cute to watch him prepare. he had looked up online dance moves and asking a girl to dance.  He also showered right before and kept breath mints with him in his pocket. He danced most of the night and every slow song.  His first slow song was with another who was new to dances, it was funny to watch them try to get in position, so Jake and I went over and showed them.  Not only did I get to see my boys but I as able to dance several times with my sweetheart too.  

On the other side of the country, in Utah, Rebekah and Adam went to visit his family and were able to see Aubree at an Aggies game.  Her leg is still sore but she attempted to remove her stitches herself but ended up back at urgent care because wound began to bleed. She did not heed my advice two weeks ago to make an appointment with an ortho doctor but has now made one. She was also supposed to initially return to urgent care two weeks after stitched in for them to look at. I just want her to take care of herself.





Sunday, February 11, 2024

Salem the fat cat

Argh, those are my words.  We have four cats (that I thought would be dead by now) and I had the chance to make it 3 this week.  Will and I noticed some drops of blood Thursday evening in the office as we were cleaning some.  Later that evening, I realized it was coming from Salem and about 9:30pm after Jake was home from bishoping and calls, I told him I thought something was wrong with Salem.  Jake began to look up things online and called a vet. He was encouraged to bring him in. The initial ER visit and treatment were estimated to be $2700-$3500 max but we received a call the following morning stating he needed surgery, which would be an additional $3500-$4500 to remove the bladder stones causing the obstruction. Now, please know we already thought $2700-$3500 was too high for a cat but we know the love Aubree has for that cat, so we paid....needless to say we did the same for the surgery. In the past, I would say people were crazy to do those things and to just put them to sleep but we were in the situation....and it was not about the cat per say but our daughter's feelings, so we saved the cat. I have mixed feelings about it but here we are.  We did decide in the future, we will put the animal down if it arises again. That is a lot of money!