Sunday, September 30, 2018

Ginny's talk

Ginny spoke in sacrament meeting today and as I watched, I realized that she is becoming a young women.  In a few short years, her wings will be clipped and I will watch as she begins to fly towards her destiny...I am not sure I am ready for that day nor am I certain that I ever will be.  Jake was holding Charlie and as I sat there, the thought crossed my mind that the next little one we hold in church could be our grandchild....not sure how I feel about that possibility either. Young women in excellence was after church today and in its simplicity it was exquisite.  The girls had each brought in items that represented them and we were able to walk and visit each one, getting a glimpse of who they are and whom they are becoming.  Last Wednesday, we took our youth to Memphis 1st ward for an activity and my heart was overjoyed as we pulled in, there three youth were waiting by the door with open arms and as we left there were at least a dozen adults to bid us farewell with beaming smiles. What a difference it must have made to all the youth that evening, building relationships and helping those whom are often in isolation know they are cared for, it was wonderful to be a part of it.
Ginny's talk delivered 100% with her charisma.
"Hi, I’m Ginny Farrell, I’m 16, I am a junior at Bartlett High School, I have three siblings and two parents. I don’t know I don’t lead a very interesting life. But into the actual talk now, our youth theme for this year has been peace in christ. When I heard it in January I had no idea how much it would affect me, but as the year has gone by it has had a really big impact. Being a teenager is hard, we have to make all of these really big decisions and its like really stressful. However, as I have made a real effort to grow closer to my Heavenly Father and become more Christ-like, I have this peace in Christ. I’ve made decisions over things that were really stressful at the time, but I knew they would be ok, because I had that peace. Peace IN Christ is not temporary and it is such a nice feeling. The other day I was listening to the Peace in Christ song and I realized that it has the most views of all the youth songs. I was pondering and thinking about it and then it clicked that people want to find this peace. There is very little peace in the world today, it’s hard to find. Seeing this, I was reminded how grateful I am for the gospel and I have a home I go to that is filled with that peace. That does not mean it is peaceful. As stated earlier, I have three okay siblings and four cousins whom think of me as their own personal assistant. There is hardly ever a peaceful moment. There is spiritual peace though and in the past month it has really increased. It’s because we’ve been working on serving each other.  My parents have always said if you see a need fill a need or if you’re my dad its see a need tell the child in closest proximity to you to fill it. Recently for family home evening we’ve been focused on charity and service. During one activity we wrote things that we as a family and an individual will do. These things included making sure the dishes were done, being more positive, having the boys in bed by seven.  At like 7:30 the peace seemed to increase dramatically. Then, if we are able to complete all the things, we get to go do something like camping, now some may call that bribery, we call it initiative. It’s been like three weeks and we have yet to go camping, but there are other rewards. I feel closer to my family and they’ve become one of my biggest strengths. As I have served my family, my spirituality has greatly increased and I have become closer to my Savior. It’s really hard to not grow closer to Him when we serve, because that is what he spent his whole life doing.  I drive now, so a lot of my service is going and picking up things and it great. These acts of service aren’t big things, like I clean around some, I bring home Sheridans for my mom, I drive my siblings around, I babysit, it doesn’t seem like much, but these are the things that have had a really big impact. Cheryl A. Esplin said “service doesn’t have to be big and grandiose to be meaningful and make a difference. That’s so true! There have been times where I’ve done something and it wasn’t noticed or acknowledged and I would get upset or salty, but I realized when I remembered that the point of service is not for attention I felt better. I felt happy with myself that I had took time out of my day and did that. I had one experience with my choice and accountability project. I decided to clean the house while my family was doing something and not tell them about it. I worked hard and I was proud of myself when I got it done. When my parents got home, they were less then pleased with my brothers room and some random stuff and I was kind of mad. I was thinking I worked hard to do this, I am not responsible for my brothers room. Then the spirit reminded me that the reward is in the service, not afterward. I decided to get over myself and start over and improve the things my parents were complaining about. I felt even better when my parents were happy with how the house looked and I don’t think I told them that I was working on my project at the time, I don’t know. What I do know is that it was worth it because that service made my home more peaceful and somewhere the Spirit could more fully dwell. I know that service is one of the best ways to make the best of a situation. I know that it helps you and the person receiving the service. I know that sometimes it isn’t easy to serve someone, but its one of the most rewarding things you could do. In the name of Jesus Christ amen. "




Sunday, September 16, 2018

Catch Up

With all six members of our family in school, it seems that we barely stay afloat some days (Jake is working on his EdS and I am working on my Masters) but we are making extra effort to ensure we do.  Our family is not always the best at family home evening but the last two weeks we have managed to do it.  The first week, we each drew a name and that was our secret family member to be extra charitable and kind to for the week.  It was neat to see everyone guess the following week and listen to the kids about their whys.  It seemed our family was a little more tolerant of one another.  This past week, we created goals on ping pong balls and we have to try to complete them each day (some are personal, some are family, and some are random things anyone can do) to empty our basket.  I feel Jake was inspired to do these activities, if not for anyone but me.  My goal was to not raise my voice and I have done well.  We also started Will on medication for his hyperness and are monitoring that but I want to believe it has been self-control that has prevented me from raising my voice. Oh my stars, I just looked at previous entries and realized that I have not even uploaded the back to school photos (well, I didn't even think to take them but Eileen took pictures of the boys for me and so did Christopher's teacher).  We spent a couple of weekends in Jackson this past month as well.  There are times that I wish we went down more often but am thankful we get down when we do. This week, we were in Jackson for ward conference but my parents were in Idaho, so I drove down this morning but Will accompanied me.  Towards the end of church, I received the following from Jake:
"If I were a kite, you would be the string.  To some it might appear that you are holding me back and preventing me from souring.  Only if I could break the cord that binds me, then surely they believe I could go higher.  Yet if the cord was broke, I could not support my own weight, I would flutter in the wind, being tossed to and fro, only to come crashing down.  Upon further review, it is you that supports the flight and I am forever grateful."  
Melts my heart! I am not sure how that man puts up with me but I am sure glad that he does. We realize that our time is limited with Ginny before she enters the world of adulthood and it makes me sad and want to be selfish with spending time with her.























Tuesday, September 4, 2018

Happy 14th birthday Aubree!

Today we get to celebrate Aubree! She has the kindest heart of anyone I know, full of talent, and keeps our family on the right path. Happy Birthday Aubree- we love you for you and wouldn’t change you! You brighten a room with your dazzle and make difficult days better. She wanted to go all these various places to try to get free food today. 
According to Aubree:  
You currently want to be when you grow up: Teacher or Actress  
Your favorite color is: Blue  
Your favorite show is: The Greatest Showman  
Your favorite game is: Softball  
Your favorite toy or activity is: Painting, acting, or softball  
Your favorite boy is: Jesus  
You are really good at: Double chins  
Your best friend is: Megan and Riya  
You want to vacation to: The beach  
Your favorite ice cream is: All of the above  
Your wish is to be: Kind to everyone  
Your hero is: Papaw and Charity
Your favorite thing to do with your friends is: Eat  
Your favorite holiday is: Christmas, Easter, or Halloween  
Your favorite person in the whole world is: That's a good question  
Your favorite song is: Nothing More (ALL OF THE BROADWAY SONGS, except the inappropriate ones)  
Your favorite restaurant is: Gus's World Famous Fried Chicken  
Your favorite foods are: Pork burritos, dad's burgers, & Gus's  
If you had $1000 you would buy: Anastasia tickets on Broadway