Friday, January 1, 2021

Welcome 2021

Scrolling through social media and realizing that there’s so much negativity about 2020 (people are so anxious for it to end), I was reminded 2020 was not my worst year at all. Yes, it had its challenges but also it’s blessings  2020 blessed our family with TIME, something we had let slip by with the unnecessary business of life  

😬Jake and I both passed our Praxis exams to become licensed administrators. We are both becoming master in-person and virtual teachers at the sane time. I’m so glad we get to work together (same school, grade, and subject- it’s sweet and makes it hard to ever want to change).  

😳Ginny graduated in the top 5% of her high school class and determined her college of choice, after going back forth between BYU- Provo age ETSU.  East Tennessee State University proved to be the best for her. She has decided to serve a full time mission and has her papers ready for submission this month. She demonstrates great trust in our Heavenly Father and shows faith as she moves forward into the unknown. 

πŸ˜€ Aubree has learned to drive and has her license. She is navigating a new lifestyle of virtual  learning, requiring greater self- advocacy, responsibility, and determination. It is tough, but she somehow is managing all high A’s and is in all honor/AP courses. One of her greatest blessings is a new found closeness with her sister. 

🀩 Will has become quite the outdoor yard care helper and got his first paying yard jobs this year.  He exceeded expectations. He was so excited to be able to buy Christmas πŸŽ„ gifts for all his siblings. He is also learning the importance of non-procrastination and being through as he navigates virtual school. Real talk- it is super hard for him and he struggles to stay focused but he is doing it and steadily improving. He has also learned the desire for in-person friendship days and big just video games. He longs to see his friends in person. 

😎 Christopher doesn’t want 2020 to end. Last night he shared the best thing about was COVID-19 because it brought family time and virtual school. He has championed the unexpected and reminded us that LOVE really is spelled TIME. He also mastered learning to ride a bike. 

🧐 2020 bring lots of personal/world heartache, grief, distress, and flat out negative for many. We hope to remember the good that happened too. We created stronger family relationships, loved home church- learning together (our gospel study became alive and more personal), and as much as we love vacationing-the minimal this year that forced us home with more time. May our little crew never forget the patio dinners,  masks 😷 and sanitizers new car necessities, bike 🚲  riding, family walks, trying new recipes,  games of 4-square, building puzzles 🧩, board games, card games, piano/vocal duets (the expected and unexpected) and our first (and probably only) Christmas πŸŽ„ with just the 6 of us. 

πŸ₯³ We are grateful for 2020 because we are better from it... we were reminded the importance of family time, trusting in God and His timing, learning patience as we venture in the unknown, having faith in the small and simple things and not only does God hear our prayers but answers them...most often in unexpected ways. In the beginning of the pandemic I felt sad for myself and kids. I wanted Ginny to have a gradation, prom, etc and I wanted to experience as a traditional mom but I’m glad I got to learn this new way. I was so sad when Aubree’s play was cancelled but later experienced a completely social distanced play where there was more opportunity to shine. So 2020 as you end, you’ll forever be one of my BEST years. 

πŸ™πŸ»We count ourselves fortunate this year and continually pray for our close friends and families who are/ were affected differently through the last year. We are aware 2020 has been the worst for some. Our family will continue to do our part and what the leaders have asked. May the Lord bless you and may you feel His love from Him and through others. May we all notice God’s grace more abundantly in our lives this year and act upon it. Welcome 2021! 

Tuesday, December 29, 2020

Happy 13th Birthday Will

Will, oh Will...our comical boy with the biggest heart.  Although you do not see every day nor may feel it all the time, you make us proud.  You are becoming a young man with a heart to help others.  You have questioned your faith a little this year but have not quit trying to develop your testimony.  You are determined. Each day you want to become more and more like your dad, your eyes light up to spend time with him and when he compliments you. You are super resourceful and witty. We love you exactly the way you are. 

Facts about Will, by Will:

You currently want to be when you grow up: Marine biologist
Your favorite color is: teal
Your favorite show: Beyblade Burst
Your favorite game is: Farming Game
Your favorite toy or activity is: Pickleball
Your favorite girl is: Mom
You are really good at:  baseball
Your best friend is: Walker Orris and JJ Jones
You want to vacation to: Disney Cruise
Your favorite ice cream is:  all, I do not really have just one favorite.
Your wish is to be: a shark
Your hero is: my dad
Your favorite thing to do with your friends is: Roblox because cannot due much more during quarantine.   
Your favorite holiday is:  Christmas
Your favorite person in the whole world is: my family
Your favorite song(s) is:  Save our Crown (a Minecraft parody)
Your favorite restaurant is: Olive Garden
Your favorite foods are: pizza
If you had $1000 you would buy:  a yacht

Friday, December 25, 2020

Christmas Day

 Last night was one of my favorite Christmas Eve's ever.  We spent the evening together, ate a wonder dinner, sang Carols, read Luke 2, and began the obstacle course.

Captured Ginny in the moment of tripping

Trying to set up


Jake and I may can mark this as one of our best Christmas's yet.  I think Jake was the jolliest we have seen him in a while (the kids noticed too), we joked with him saying it was because no one was around.  We very much soaked up the moment of just our little family but on the same token, I missed seeing mine too and the traditional Christmas dinner with a family.  All in all, trying to stay "safer at home" was a blessing to us. 


Christmas Eve obstacle course

Let’s begin…

 

Twas the night before Christmas when all through the room, not a child was stirring, each unaware of their impending doom.  

Than arose such a clatter that they arose from the slumber to unravel a story of such awful wonder.

Will they overcome the obstacles and solve the clues before the sunlight hits the morning dew?

 

Here is the first hint: Everything requires hindsight, each lock to be opened- look at history for your insight.

*Lock combo set to 2020*

Clue in the lockbox reads: This is the 1st game, introduced by Christopher with a ball but Follow the kings reign, or you just might fall.  (Four-square)

 

This is the month and year that we never saw coming. We got two sweet kittens and one with anger. Unlock the door for the kittens before it is too late for Stink, the newest member, for she is in mortal danger.

Lock combo set to 420  that unlocks the bathroom door.

 

You must tell Alexa to illuminate your clue, then slide down the stairs with all care. But name the wrong place and wake mom from dreams of vacation as she transforms into a very hangry bear.

Yellowstone is the code for Alexa to turn on correct light.

 

Papa would probably be mad enough to neat the band…

But we taught you to play poker so play your best hand!

Lock combo set to 000 (code on 10-J-Q-K-A written disappearing ink)

 

It took some effort to learn all together so many times we were “wrong”.

But the lessons centered around a babe and a sign to appease the evil throng.

Lock combo set to 407, code is discovered as page 407 of Book of Mormon highlighted (3Nephi 1)

 

You got so far and come so close, but return to the 2nd week of February or the game ends and you are toast.

New clue is in the Farming game back upstairs (this in in box by bedroom door).

 

We hope you had fun and created some favorite memories this year. And no matter where or how the time moves us we love you each so dear.  (this is in Farming game attached to a paint stick to move alarm from under bedroom door)

 

This was supposed to be Ginny’s big day but we always knew there was a risk because “she’s going to college” but now is here to stay.

Lock combo set to 511 (should’ve been her graduation day)

 

It’s time to walk in faith especially since the day Aubree started to legally drive. Dodge the tree branches and honor the right away or might slip and take a dive. 

Hop scotch on Sept 18th.  (other spots have vasoline)

 

Possible one of my favorite Christmas Eves ever

Obstacle Course

 
Randoms from the day


Sunday, December 20, 2020

He loves me--my birthday post from him yesterday

 Today is my totally awesome and wonderful wife’s birthday. She means the world to me and our family. She is strong. She has her insecurities but despite those keeps going and giving it her best everyday... true strength. She is kind. She will disagree with you and then do all she can to help you... real kindness. In your dark times, she will share the light of Christ that she has within her. I not only thank God for her today, but for every moment that I get to share with her. Happy birthday, Renee' Farrell! Know that this day is one of my favorite. I love you.

Saturday, December 19, 2020

Will's talk

Will and Aubree have been asked to speak in sacrament tomorrow....it is his first talk. Here it is:

 

Hello Everyone,

            For those who don’t know me I am Jake Farrell. I was asked to speak about our favorite Christmas Story whether it be a book, or an experience and it has to be centered around the spirit. Just so you know we couldn’t choose the Nativity story. If we were able to, I would have chosen that.

            The story I chose was our traditional obstacle course. This is an experience that I look forward to every year. How it works is the kids go to bed early  on Christmas Eve and the adults make an obstacle course. The obstacle course begins as you open the door with traps, riddles, bells, and anything else that may get us.The kids wake up and try to beat the it without cheating and waking the adults. The kids sleep upstairs. When we wake up around 4:00 A.M we make our way top to bottom doing every challenge. The rules were simple:  

1.     No cheating.

2.     Make it through the obstacle course without waking adults.  

3.     No peeking when the obstacle course is being set-up.

4.     If the kids win they chose when to open the gifts, if we lose our parents chose when to open them.

 

            One of my favorite experiences of this is when Aubree got scared and screamed when a door alarm went off opening my parents’ bedroom door and she pushed Christopher, who was way younger in front.

            I related the obstacle course to the spirit.  They are related because life will throw trials (Obstacles) but the spirit (Team) will help you get through them. The spirit helps because he tries to warn us about bad choices by giving us promptings and helps us know good choices too with good feelings. He can prompt you to recognize answers to prayers.  For example: This year when quarantine started, I was riding my bike one day. As I was riding, I fell and slid down a driveway. No one recognized at first but when they saw they ran to help me. I had lost a chunk of my knee and had sliced my elbow badly; I would have to get stiches for both. During the entire experience my family help me the whole time. If we are going to be specific when I say family, I mean Ginny, Aubree, and my mother. They were the reason I got through stiches.

            I bear my testimony that I know the church is true. I know with the spirit and your family by your side you can get through anything. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Thursday, December 10, 2020

Thanksgiving,Testomonies, and Wisdom Teeth

This year for Thanksgiving we went to Hot Spring Arkansas and met up with some of Jake's family.  Initially everyone was planning to attend but with Covid-19, plans changed. We did not go up as long as initially planned.  The day we left, we had to replace the battery so that added to the adventure but as a result, we decided not to take the cats because just the few minutes in the car trying to start it they were a hot mess.  We ended up leaving Tuesday afternoon and came home Friday afternoon.  Most of the time was spent outside so we could all be distanced. The weather cooperated great. 






 On Sunday December 6, 2020 was testimony meeting at church.  Our numbers are small in the branch but I very much enjoyed listening to the testimonies of Jake and my children.  This past Sunday Jake bore testimony of the Book of Mormon being a book of miracles, Aubree bore testimony of the Savior's character and referenced a scripture she loved in 3 Nephi 19 that talks about the Savior smiling, and Christopher bore testimony of asking for help.  He wrote his testimony on paper before going up, it stated: "I was having a big challenge. I was learning to ride a bike and every single time I fell but this is when my family stepped in. My sister here (Aubree) gave me hope. My brother helped me balance and gave me courage. mt dad was like a teacher. My mom gave me love and faith. My sister that is not here (Ginny) gave me courage. All of this reminded me of our Savior. After all you do it will be easy for you. So if you need help, all you have to do is ask." Simplicity but beautiful.  After church Sunday, we drove to my parents for a visit. That was nice too.

 

Playing on the hay bells
 

On Tuesday I received a call from the doctor wanting to see Aubree again for labs, her blood work for liver functions came back abnormal so they wanted to re-draw.  I was off today already to take Ginny to the dentist to get her wisdom teeth pulled, so I took her in.  Ginny was a hot mess with her teeth.  Afterwards, she was convinced they took her tongue and sold it or gave it to a homeless man. She also thought I was kidnapping her and as her dad was helping her in the back, she cried hysterically more that he was "holding her back".  She cried about everything.  She seems to be a little better tonight.  It also just so happens Jake called into work sick today as he left yesterday (Wednesday) early not feeling well.  I felt that there was a lot happening in my world today.